we really can't assume...

getting pregnant in high school.

getting mugged.
having sex for the first time.
choosing love over work, or vice versa.
ending a perfect relationship

We can assume what we'd do in these situations {adoption, punch to the face, waiting until marriage, compromise!} but obviously we really can't make decisions until we've been put in the predicament. Nor can we judge the people who do make their own decisions.All of these weird situations, we can never quite know what to expect. Yes, I could say I'm totally waiting until marriage to have sex, but, really, is that even plausible? Marriage these days is as flimsy as a normal relationship... Or I could say "I'd totally kick the mugger's ass ten times over if he tried to hurt me!" But no one really knows until the complete terror of someone with your life in their hands has descended what they'll do.
So, I think before we scream out in movies "What are you doing?!" or judge the girl in the hallways or work rooms whose got a growing bump until we've been in the situation ourselves...
Instead of judging, we should offer support. We may not know the girl or guy whose going through all this, but we can at least let them know, we don't judge them. We're there, albeit oddly, if they desperately need someone.

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